A friend posted a question the other day, "Ever wondered to yourselves why we are here?" The truth is, this questions is one that oftens come to mind when I was young. That was the time where I search for answers to life and the time where I made a lot of mistakes, do the things that I know I shouldn't and the time that I rebel the most. And all these just to know my limits and how far I can go. Now that I am at my mid age... I have stopped wondering. I guess I have found my peace.
And I use to be very ambitious. I have a career goal in mind and I focused on what I want to achieve and move towards it. Today, I am where I am. At the level where I have worked very hard to be at. I know that if I want to, I will continue to go up. But somehow, as I grow older, my perspectives in life changed. I am no longer ambitious.
All I want is just to have a peaceful balance life and achieving high positions in career path is no longer in my agenda. And yet again, as fate has it, I was being head hunted for a GM position. I have declined the proposal, 3 months ago - now the offer is up again. It is not the fear of not performing but somehow, I don't think is the time yet... but then again, considering the many things that are happening right now, perhaps the time is right? Here I go.. back to wondering again..
Thursday, October 07, 2010
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3 comments:
Go for it, Ever.
Of course, there are always 2 sides of the coin.
Let's face it; if it is "Heads" then you are definitely moving ahead & will get to see things differently & achieve greater heights.
If it's "Tails", at least you won't owe it to yourself for not even giving it a shot.
There are no winners or losers in defining your own destiny.
But if you don't even attempt to, you will never know.
Cheers :)
thanks Fah Fah... now how is the counselor?? hahah!
Haha...
You still are.
I am merely trying to use the counselling skills I have learned from you ... :P
And the verdict is GO FOR IT! :)
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